You must be rich?

I was thinking about what a visitor of this blog wrote some days ago, who pointed out that in fact the true wealth was in the feelings, on the good things inthe relationship of people and not in money. He said more or less literally that …. I think the greatest wealth a person can achieve in his life is empathy, trust, love, friendship, patience, understanding, all that is the true human wealth. However much money will not make you happier, instead, can yes to be the most unhappy man on earth…..

A lot of others blog visitors replied, very sparingly, to what would happen if a family member need emergency surgery costing $ 40,000 and not have them … Needless to say, the violence of the situation, and since they are real things that happen every day, no need to exaggerate the point. We have all seen cases like that.

Of course, pretty words are very poetic and very pleasant to listen, but faced with the reality of our world today, it is impossible not to see the need for money, to dispose of property. Anyone can get in the place of people who are not served with the technology that would be needed to save their lives, simply for lack of money or property to be transformed into money.

It is at that point where all the romanticism disappear and one is desperate, even regret of his luck and god, facing the impossibility and frustration that this generates.

Therefore it is necessary to be rich, have lots of money, that money is not just a problem in our lives. If we have enough and more than enough, then the poem may actually be a poem, dreams may be dreams, and nothing will be stained the color of need. There actually may be true the words of this person’s greatest wealth are the feelings. When you have the money resolved, obviously.

What you see when you face problems?

In my work every day my specialty is solving problems. My job is having a limited budget, impossible deadlines and demands of every kind, solving problems that appear to come to fruition in a timely manner. And there are problems every day, and many.

At first, by inexperience, I despair, my heart beating became mad, and my hands sweat. Until I met Wallace Wattles. That was a soothing balm huge and that made me see things differently.

Now when I meet a problem that seemed insoluble, my first reaction is to look inward, toward my deep soul. Reassuring, and still bring calm. The soul controls the brain, and if your soul or your spirit are nervous or desperate, your brain will not work properly either. Ideas will not come and solutions does not appear.

Once this is done, my soul quiet, perhaps thinking of a reassuring landscape, or in a future where this problem is finally solved, the brain begins to seek solutions resting on that tranquility. Everything matches. Everything becomes clear.

There, at that time, begin to appear magically solutions. And perhaps more than one at a time.

This whole process, day after day, generates an adrenaline in your body that makes you feel pleasure. Especially if you see that the solution adopted were the best, the brightest. And that leads you to a physical pleasure, palpable, clear and clean.

The surprising truth of the action

I read a small article Dr. Robert Anthony on the truths and myths surrounding what we know as action. For action he implies the work, physical or mental activity that we develop when we earn money or get a fine. And, what says Dr. Anthony is simply amazing. Let me clarify that this doctor is an expert in the philosophy surrounding Wallace wattle and his work.The idea that introduced the article is simple, but not less amazing. Its based in thinking that we must act, work, move, but only when we are really prepared. Will try to translate as best as possible the idea of Dr. Anthony.

All of us work guided by the idea that if no effort, nothing is achieved. Since we have put this small idea into our head and our whole culture revolves around it. Without effort, without working hard, without immolation at the altar of work nothing will be achieved. That is the message. However all we have seen here and there people who seem to get everything they intend effortless, and although not many, surely we all know some. And everyone, absolutely everyone we know many people who kill their entire working lives, they are slaughtered them and their families, and yet remain in poverty, rising hardships, not even achieve the minimum that would make happy.

Why this happens? Because work without being prepared, is moving backwards. And what means be prepared? It is to be on the vibration that attracts the best things we want. The entire universe vibrates, because all lives. And our vibrations attract other similar vibrations. Our thought vibrates, and thus attract the things we want when we’re ready.

But if we work under pressure, forcing the stones to sting until we bleed hands, which we attract is more pain, more punishment. Our vibration will be negative, it will be towards the pain and sacrifice, and that will come toward us faster than we imagine. In return, we should focus on the idea of what we want, but before you make the effort.

The secret for that is given by the same author. Before acting, thinking about what we want for our future. If in doing so we feel heaviness or anxiety, is not the time to act. If when we think about future feel the rush and anxiety for their achievement, wait. If, however, when thinking about the things we want to achieve we feel peace and calm and we know that is already on its way towards us, it’s time to act, working to implement our best effort into what we do. We know that the result will be what we want and that we only have to pave the way for reaching things that crave.

Things will not arrive by our mental or physical effort alone, nothing will do against the power of the universe. They arrive at the time that our energy is ready, vibrating with what so desired, that our effort is no longer an effort, and will not fatigue or punishment, but will only enlist the ground so that we will reach that happiness.

How to know what is what we really want?

Aha, we have arrived at the question of the million. If I had a prescription to answer that question, I would make a program of TV where respond that doubt to him to a single person and would have thousands of million viewers and hearing. It is possible that the basic question that all human being must answer itself when enters the adult age is so difficult to answer? Perhaps the human beings do not know what we want?

Perhaps it is possible that we do not have nor the most remote idea of which we want, in many cases but in almost all? If, it is possible. Perhaps it is an analogy of which the Principe of Saint Exupery said: The essential is invisible to the eyes. We would say, the Question that Seems More obvious is Most difficult To respond. Not in vain the psychologists proliferate and psychoanalysts who search our soul in look for that answer. But although there is no a prescription that says to us what mechanism to use for knowing it, we can give some tracks.

First it is to differentiate to want from to wish. The things that I want to not always are those that I desire and vice versa. To want to have something is to want it, simply, so that my mind wants that I have it. To wish it is a less mental feeling, and than it is lived more with the body, with the senses. I at this moment wish a chocolate ice cream, but I do not want for my future a chocolate ice cream, I don´t know if the difference is understood. We want with the mind, we wish with the body, the soul and the heart yet. The Science To become Rich is a mental attitude, is to want but that to wish. And what I want for my future, which I want to have, to have, to enjoy, to be, is something that I must visualize it in my mind, not to mix it with sensations or feelings. Science is mental, so that the mind creates, the heart or desire does not create.

The second is the deep introspection. There is no another way. I said in a post of some days ago that everybody has not been wanting nor truly is prepared to be rich, with all the problems that it can carry. There it is the point where we must be absolutely sincere with we our self. In the generalized case more of the readers of this blog, they will agree with me that when one arrives at certain adult age, is difficult to know what it is really wanted. This is thus so that we have been lived much, have seen many things, have been verified that the life is something so complex and complete, that one really does not know whereupon part of the life to remain, where to put the accent. It is why the sincerity with one is fundamental. Nobody as you is to say what is what you really want, but nobody as you will deceive to you so easily. It is a two-way road. And we must be sincere with ourselves, with whom but?

And the third track is “bloody more”, to give an adjective: it is to think about our personal history. The ways that we have taken and left, the place from where we come, our frustrations of kids, which sometimes we wanted to be and we did not animate ourselves or they did not let to us be, the frustrations of our parents who still weigh on us. Really, the history of our own life. That history is in the root of which we are, therefore to remove or to interpret our objectives from our same history, could not never be something other people’s to us. And perhaps we find there what really we want forwards, towards the future.

To watch to us but in history, in our history, to count it like a film and to remove there from what we need, the direction that we looked for, the future that we yearned for but without knowing it. It is obvious to mention that this is simply a way indication, each one must take the best thing than it sees and follow it. In the future, far but closely together, is there what we wished. Wattles knew it, and thus he wrote it.

Why helping others? (cont.)

We all have something to give. That is a truth that has no discussion. We see it every day, at every step, in all situations. Even those who do not seem.In my work I know many people, both very capable and very prepared at universities in the first world, as well as people who just finished his elementary school and develops very simple tasks. I know also people of great experience, which many years ago that makes his task, and people just start in a trade, either simple or complex. And everywhere, absolutely everywhere, I see something that they have to give. Something that others need, at every step, every moment of the day.

We work in a group, more or less reduced. In this group, as I say, there are people of every background and experience. My first job was trying to join the group, namely giving the characteristic of a group. Understanding as a set of people with a common goal, with a project together. To do so the first thing I did, of course, to establish the common goal and comment it with everyone, making them see that we had to work for all the same.

But the second thing I did was make them see each of them that everyone had something to give to others. Rather than concentrate on showing that each was necessary that the work of each was part of the essential work of the group, my conversation with each of them was to show that they had something to give to the group. That meant that the motivation to grow exponentially. So, rather than show that each one was needed for a role, I concentrated on discovering that thing everyone could give to the group beyond their work.

Their work is the counterpart of his salary, but to enforce the injunction to Wattles “give more than they receive”, they each had to give more than they receive, that is needed to be something more than their work. Making their task merely part of a machine as a gear, which in the best case I could get perfect working to fulfill the goal. And never work in perfect shape, of course. But giving more than they receive, the mechanism of the machine operates more oiled and cover all the gaps that might have on the task of each. Thus, each one grows and the group grows and grows. Extrapolating, the universe grows, more life for all.

And what each one can give? I started mentioning all the joy and good education. Those two things are an essential first base that transform the workplace in a nice place, peaceful and pleasant. A good environment becomes all more productive and efficient. In addition lime roughness, generates confidence and makes us more easy the problems always, always going to happen.

And then I continued with leniency. The forbearance is a virtue that has no press, but is essential for understanding among human beings. The indulgence is a relative of generosity, and is to be sympathetic with the mistakes of others while we give a second chance and we have no accents too strong in the failures of others. The indulgence can build relationships between humans, that the mutual understanding of the errors of each generates an extraordinary familiarity and acceptance.

There is much more to say, and to give. But these three things I talked to each of them produced a multiplied impressive effect. Each of the people realized they had much more to give than just their work 8 hours in an office. Each became aware of how important it was to him for the whole group, and that solidified and joined the group.

Things are happening at this very moment, but I can assure you that neither ten years could have achieved as a group united as I managed in a few weeks to show what each has to give, without being obliged to do so. It is magical. Make the test.